How to Move Out Your Ex Like A Pro

MovingBy Julie DeLong, A-1 Freeman Moving Group 

As professional movers in Oklahoma City, we have made it easier for people to move for all sorts of various reasons. At times, the reason is a happy one, and in some cases, it is because of a challenging situation like a separation, death or break-up. We definitely are not here to judge, but alternatively to supply some suggestions we have compiled over time of assisting individuals to move after a break-up.

Moving in with each other is a trial; an assessment of if you and your significant other can endure one another when you're in close proximity constantly. Many couples pass with flying colors, and others... well, some won't. If you are in that second group, and you need to ensure that your ex gets out and stays out, then it is essential that you make sure you do not skip a trick on the subject of the moving out process in Oklahoma City.

If you wish to ensure they can't pull the, "Well, I found myself in your neighborhood, and remembered I still had various things to pick up," card, then you should follow these tips.

Tip #1: Get Organized

Whenever you live with somebody, your stuff will most likely mix. In spite of this, when you've separated, it should be time to re-draw those lines making it clear whose belongings are whose. Consequently, move room by room, and set every one of your ex's belongings aside. It's probably going to be more challenging than it sounds, both as a result of memories linked to the things, and because you will be constantly preparing a list of stuff you now have to replace. However you should do it quickly, and efficiently. Tear the band-aid off quickly, and the agony will probably fade sooner.

Tip #2: Get It Out of Your Residence

After you have all of your ex's items in one place, you should not simply place it in a closet, or let it stay in a extra room in your home. You need it away from your home, so you're able to breathe for a bit and distance yourself from the memories.

Don't chuck it out the window or toss it on the curb (gratifying as that might be, contingent on your situation). Yet, find their items a home outside of your home. Put it with one of your ex's buddies or even take it to their mother's house. In case all else fails, hire a professional mover in Oklahoma City and obtain a storage space. Give your ex the key to the unit so they can go get it when they are ready for it. But do not allow it to needlessly sit in your place; the very last thing you will want when attempting to pick up and move forward is an elephant remaining in the corner.

Tip #3: Get Them A Different Place to Live

One more thing your ex could drag their feet on is finding somewhere to move to, now that you've split up. And of course, finding a place is no cup of tea, especially when you will be doing it alone. And that's why, while you have plenty of other stuff to do, you need to help obtain a spot for them to move.

If this means identifying another apartment that is available and inside their budget (on the other side of the town) or chatting with your friends to determine who could use an additional roommate, be sure you do not let the grass grow beneath your ex's feet. You will want them out the door together with their stuff, and when they have someplace to go, they will not pull the guilt trip that you'll be just kicking them out onto the street.

Tip #4: Do Not Backslide

Splitting up is hard, there's no two ways about that. But when you have to do something, it's important to take concrete steps toward completion every day. If you do not have enough time, or the stamina, to pack up all things in one day, then pack a single area each day or get in touch with a moving company in Oklahoma City to help you with the packing and moving. If you're unable to drive around the area checking on apartment prices, do not worry, you possess the power of the smartphone as well as the Internet. Send several email messages or maybe place a couple of phone calls.

The important thing is that you are moving forward, and not simply keeping where you are... or even worse, hoping for everything to just resolve itself.

 

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